Age 14, as I nudged into the dating world, I began dating a girl who used apple-scented shampoo. We were both quite smitten until she went to summer camp. I mooned around while she was away, gazing at her photo and counting the days until her return. When she finally got back it was awkward and weird and she cut me loose shortly after.
The entire incident taught me a lot about dating, and the ineffective nature of me asking “but…why?” during a break up. Anyhow, this girl’s mother loved Simon and Garfunkel, and that mother had established enough of a family culture of loving Simon and Garfunkel that this girl I dated also loved Simon And Garfunkel. I listened to quite a bit of Simon and Garfunkel during and after our affair. I’ve both subconsciously and consciously associated S&G with that girl ever since, generally in an appreciative way.
While Sounds of Silence and Bridge Over Troubled Water rank pretty high up, I’ve generally thought of Bookends as overrated. Not as catchy, too many duds…that sort of thing. This time though I would say the album really opened itself up to me. I found to arc of it to be melancholy and wistful in a way that came as a surprise. I had to revise my opinion upwards.
Maybe, much like that girl who tormented my summer way back then, I’ve gotten older and wiser.
Because she’s real old and wise now too.